Monday 30 December 2013

Are we grown up Parents -- Really ?

Any Young person , especially in India , is aware of Anacin , Crocin , Combiflam , Disprin , Sorbitrate etc.


Why?

Because , its been OK these days to take a pill in case of a small disturbance in health. Guys are more than OK to ignore small symptoms .. Kaam Rukna Nahin chahiye..

Young students are hypertensive in the age of 10 to 15.....Why ? extreme stress.. .I really feel sorry for most of them as most of them are not living their dreams but their Parents dream. Its a matter of pride for parents these days to show off credentials and academic achievements of children. My Son is in IIT or in Australia... 

But they are not aware of simple fact....Its India...Everybody show off... lol

ਬੜੇ ਹੋ ਜਾਓ

What we sow, we will reap.

Lets consider case of two families A and B

When both families are together at a social event
Parent A does not want to show off Child's weakness in front of Parent B.

Parent B does not want to show off Child's weakness in front of Parent A. 


When both families are together at a social event
Parent A feels proud to show off Child's achievement in front of Parent B.

Parent B feels proud to show off Child's achievement in front of Parent A.

When alone 
Parent A will pressurize their child to compete with Child B.

Parent B will pressurize their child to compete with Child A.


Is anyone really happy and impressed ?
No one.

Arre , whom are you trying to make fool ...Its a reality , parents themselves are not grown up. Right as a parent has become a right of expectation. I try to fake and know you are already faking,

Grow up... Sit for a while and think what child wants.

I remember , an adult parent saying "Mera Beta BA karne ke bare mein soch kaise sakta hai "

Pls... grow up..

We will touch these topics more.

Happy New Year....






Happiness in life ...Reality Check

Everybody wants happiness.., but how many gets it ? 

Is it reality or a perspective?

May be its as tough as Einstein's theory of relativity or as simple as drinking a glass of water. ?

Is it confusion?

May be we are happy , but don't have time to see it in fast pace of life..

Hindu scriptures says Balance of 5 elements can make us happy.

a) Eating as per "ayurveda"
b) Living in good architecture as per " Vastu shastra"
c) Listening to music as per " Classical Music "
d) Doing Exercise and work on fitness as per "Yoga"
e) Plan life's major milestones intelligently as per " Horoscope"

we will explore more.......later