What Guys want ?

I was watching this movie’ What women want” few days back. Been always fond of movies. Can watch 24 hours. So this movie inspire me to ask friends to share things , which guys wants. I talked for around more than 100 friends and there are others, whom I am not friends.

It is right that guys want to meet their “Biological need” first. Fine, we are grown up . Let talk the other things.

I know so many Guys, who don’t share much. Its rare that they have friends. Its truth with most of the guys. They don’t have friends. After that rush of “Biological need ” is over, though they never admit, but  they are looking for a friendship from a woman, With whom they can share. See “Pyaar ka panchnaama”.

Every guy wants her wife to make food like his mother do. It seems quite ok also, as a guy who has developed a certain taste right from his childhood, its not possible to forget that. The texture, amount salt , tenderness of the chapati , that perfect mix….. No offense ladies, but its one of the things which every guy wants

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Most of the guys are tired of the Image hey have to live up with. When a guy grows up, he gets an image to live up to. There are so many expectations. Not everyone can win the race. Imagine the guys, who are left behind.  Somewhere deep down, they wanted to share what they really want. Most of them don’t get a chance ever to build a new image. They have to live up with that image” Boys don’t cry”.

Guys want to take rest but they seldom gets. Its not physical, but mentally, their DNA works 24 hours. Ever wonder , they get more heart attacks than women. They hardly gets a chance to open up their mind . You wonder, why they drink so much? If your friend, guy, bro , hubby or son is too  much into drinking, then don’t preach him  to stop drinking. He needs someone to talk. He cant talk with you on certain things, so guys go out.

If you teach a person cycling, he can do it after 50 years also. All women have this complaint of women, that they don’t understand them. Guys don’t understand women, because they don’t know it. The way, they are brought up, most of them don’t know this alien language of listening.  Guys want you to tell them the ways , in a nice way , one at a time, and not in a preachy way. Signals are enough. Its like a training.

Its with almost most of the guys, they have to think a lot about money part. Its like male ego and they don’t want to talk about the money part. They just don’t.

Guys don’t talk to their mother a lot. Why ? Its not that they don’t want to. They  don’t get a chance to. They really never get a chance..That ambiance is not there in most of the homes.That is why they make lots of friends. Most of them are just acquaintances, not friends.

A guy always wants to have  own set of friends, activities, and passions. Of course  they just expect you to be supportive of everything . Mostly their is no communication and  rule are not set. Its just that every guy wants to hold on to his own identity.They forget to communicate that.

Well , Research is going on…more tips tomorrow. Got to take my kid from school. c ya.